Let’s be real, sex isn’t like how it is portrayed on your typical porn site or your preferred social media (*winks* iykyk). In reality, sex itself doesn’t last that long and it’s not supposed to last long. Oftentimes, what makes the session feels longer is the foreplay or moments leading up to the intimate activity. Contrary to the belief of “it’s going to hurt during your first time”, sex itself is complex but you’re not supposed to feel pain when doing it, even if it’s the first time. To make things fun during sex or during your solo sessions, you can try involving toys to keep things interesting. So, you can head over to Secret Cherry Malaysia, or any sex toy store of your choice, to add more sex toys to your collection of fun.
Sex toys: What are they and why are they “fun”?
Sex toys, also known as adult toys, are … well, toys but for the purpose of pleasure and kinks. Unlike the normal toys that you play with as kids, and figures that collectors collect, sex toys exist to make solo sessions and sex fun. Normally sex toys are seen to be used for solo sessions (a.k.a masturbation sessions) and solo sessions only, but nope, they can be used for sex too!
Moreover, sex toys are meant to add more spice and a sense of “adventure” to intimate sessions, and it isn’t supposed to be seen as “something that is used because a partner is unable to be fun in bed”. Usually, guys would feel sceptical about using toys in their sessions with their partners, because they feel like it’s their responsibility to provide pleasure for their partners.
However, guys with this perspective should start seeing sex toys as their “best friend” instead of their rivals. Being able to be in charge AND utilise sex toys to their optimum usage? Talk about reaching a big “O” in no time!
Know your body: Explore and understand what turns you on
If you’re just getting to know your body and wanting to further “explore” your body and limits, you can start by identifying what you like, and what makes you feel good. For the clitoris and vagina owners, it can be difficult to be in the mood since your mind is constantly working, therefore it is important to make sure you are relaxed and comfortable in your space.
Why? It helps calm your senses, and shift your focus to your mind, soul and body. Once you are comfortable enough, you can start exploring each part of your body to find out what makes you turn on. It is recommended to explore with your hands first, before opting to get your first sex toy. It’s the same for penis owners too, however, they somehow find it easier for them to “do their business” compared to clitoris and vagina owners.
Know your toys! From Vibrators to Cock Rings, to some BDSM fun!
For sex toy newbies, it is highly recommended to try out vibrators as your first sex toy. Vibrators exist to bring pleasure to the clitoris for clitoris owners, and the tip of the penis for penis owners. Moreover, vibrators aren’t used just for the reproductive organs, but you can also use the vibrator on other sensitive parts of your body. It could be your inner thigh or your nipples, or anywhere sensitive that could arouse you.
There are a few types of vibrators to choose from, depending on which helps you reach the big O faster. For clitoris and vagina owners, oftentimes they achieve orgasm better by stimulating the external part (which is their clitoris), therefore they would choose a wand vibrator. However, if stimulating the clitoris isn’t enough, they can opt for bullet or rabbit vibrators, which stimulate internally and both at the same time.
Other than vibrators, you can also add dildos to your collection of fun toys to try. Again, do note that not all clitoris and vagina owners enjoy internal stimulation, therefore it is entirely okay if you don’t see the need to own one. However, if you do, there are also various types of dildos to choose from, ranging from your usual classic-looking dildos to dildos with patterns on them for maximum pleasure.
For penis owners, if you want to try edging to delay reaching your climax, you can try giving the cock ring a chance. Also, you can up your game by getting a vibration masturbator for maximum pleasure. With this, you penis owners won’t have to “hustle” so much on manual labour anymore.
Check out Secret Cherry Malaysia for more options to choose from!
All in all, there is definitely no harm in including sex toys in your sessions. To find out more about sex toys, you can always check out Secret Cherry Malaysia to choose the best sex toys for you. Other than sex toys, you can also check out some lubricants and lingerie to spice things up every now and then.
